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The Rise of AI in Children’s Lives
Sophie, an 11-year-old girl, experienced a painful shift from being part of a group of friends to feeling completely isolated. It started with subtle negative comments and escalated into full-blown bullying. When she came home from school one day in tears, her mother, Ella, was shocked to learn that Sophie’s friends had turned against her.
Ella noticed the cruel remarks Sophie received over the weekend, including pointed questions about her clothing choices. On the following Monday, the situation worsened when a group of girls refused to speak to Sophie during lunchtime. She tried to sit at the table, but they all moved away. Later in the playground, they told her, “Sorry, we’re not allowed to play with you,” and walked off.
This left Sophie feeling confused, sad, and deeply lonely. As a parent, Ella did everything she could to support her daughter, but it became clear that Sophie needed more than just emotional support. Eventually, she turned to an unexpected source for advice — ChatGPT.
Ella explained that Sophie had seen her using the AI tool to help write emails, so she decided to give it a try. Using Ella’s phone, Sophie asked how to deal with bullying, how to make more friends, and how to get people to like her. At first, Ella was worried about what her daughter might ask or find out. However, she soon realized that the AI provided Sophie with comfort and a sense of understanding.
“She would explain what was going on, and it would respond as if it were a real person,” Ella said. “It would say things like, ‘I hope you’re okay, Sophie,’ and ‘This is horrible to hear.’ I had to explain that it wasn’t real, that it was just programmed to sound empathetic.”
Ella admitted she was surprised by how helpful ChatGPT could be, especially for Sophie. While many adults are both impressed and concerned about the rapid development of artificial intelligence, a growing number of children under 12 are already using AI tools regularly. According to the Alan Turing Institute, one in five children under 12 use AI at least once a month. This means that more and more young children are turning to AI for entertainment, emotional support, and even academic help.
However, there are concerns about the long-term impact of this trend. A recent report called “Me, Myself and AI” by Internet Matters found that children are often exposed to inaccurate information, inappropriate content, and even develop complex relationships with chatbots. There are also fears that AI could negatively affect children’s education, particularly when it comes to homework and creative writing.
One teacher from Hertfordshire shared an experience where a student submitted work that clearly wasn’t their own. The teacher had to discard the assignment because it appeared to have been generated by ChatGPT. Another educator, Karen Simpson, expressed concerns about students relying on AI for tasks such as math problems, storywriting, and research. She warned that this could prevent children from developing essential skills like sentence structure, vocabulary, and critical thinking.
While some parents, like Mark Knoop, believe AI can be a valuable learning tool, others are more cautious. Abiola Omoade, a mother from Cheltenham, regrets purchasing a digital assistant for her sons, which has led them to rely too much on AI rather than asking her questions. She worries that this habit is limiting their problem-solving abilities and reducing meaningful conversations.
Experts like Dr. Naomi Tyrell emphasize the need for stronger safeguards and AI literacy education for both children and parents. She warns that without proper guidance, AI could become a major risk for young people, similar to the challenges posed by social media. As AI continues to evolve rapidly, it’s crucial to ensure that children are protected and supported in their learning journeys.